I need some advice...

[sunshinefunk]

I wish I could tell you what to do, but I can't. Love is strange. It is VERY possible to love more than one person at once. I have lots of love for friends and family. I dated this guy all through high school, and even though we broke up awhile ago, I know I will always love him. But I have met someone that knows me better and has more of the same goals in mind.

Please don't think you're cheating. That's not right. Maybe you could take a break for a little bit longer, maybe a month or two. I know it seems like a long time, but I think that will let you put your priorities straight. Try not to talk to either person too much. Your heart will tell you after that time what is right. You will know.

Hope that helps a little bit.
-sunshine-

[Tulips]

Hiya love,
Am no agony aunt here, and nor have I ever been in your situation. But from what you're writing, obviously theres something gone wrong between you and Ryan, otherwise you would not be having feelings for Drew. Like, Sunshine, I do not want to tell you what to do. But deep down I think you know what the best answer is. If you do go ahead with Ryan, then I feel it would be for the wrong reasons i.e. to make Ryan happy. BUT, what about you, what about what you want?! And i think if you go ahead with Ryan you will only fall out again unless you get to the root of the problem. If I was in your situation, I think I would let go of Ryan and have fun with Drew. However, I think you are using Drew for emotional support. You need to clear your head from both guys so enjoy your break, without communication from either. I Hope things get better soon. Best of Luck. XX

[Stef (Incubabe)]

Thanks. This can be deleted. I think I need time to just....get away.