Post by Interested on Aug 3, 2007 17:18:48 GMT -5
Hey all,
Just need some support...
I have had acne for 17 years. Not imagined acne... real acne. I pick at it... especially the cysts. I destroy my face even more. I have been on Accutane 4 times, among a million other things.
Now I am pregnant and my acne is even worse, which means my picking has also gone up a notch too. But beyond the picking, I want everyone's opinion on what is going on BEHIND the picking and what can be done to combat that. I feel that the picking is a manifestation of emotional problems. Or am I just wired wrong?
For instance, I *need* to look "perfect" or I am not happy or confident in public. Even my husband does not get to see me without makeup. I don't judge anyone's appearance harshly...why my own? I am repulsed by my bare face in the mirror. I feel like how can anyone love someone who looks like this? When my makeup is working, I think I look great and I feel on top of the world. When I have even one little spot bothering me that I can't cover perfectly, I feel miserable and I'm not "up". The truth is, I'm so good at squeezing, flattening, and covering my acne and sores, no one even knows I have a problem of this extent.
And don't even tell me how sick this is... I mentioned that I'm pregnant. Well, I am more anxious over how my skin will look while I'm in labor and afterwards than I am about BEING in labor. I am terrified about those famous "no makeup mom" pics holding the baby and about my family and friends coming in before I have a chance to grab my concealer. I know I will want to bolt to the bathroom and I will feel trapped. NO ONE has ever seen me without make up except me. I am terrified, and it's not about the pain of labor. I MUST be a sick individual. I am so excited about the baby, and I know all my attention should be on the little bundle of joy. But at that moment, I know I will be completely panicked while I should be brimming with joy. This is not normal.
So I ask, beyond the EXTERNAL picking, what is wrong with my INSIDES? Am I the only one with perfection obsession and if I'm not, what have others done to heal the true source of the problem? Or is this an anxiety disorder... not an emotional disorder that can only be treated with medication? H E L P !
Thank you all so much for your honesty on this board. It has helped me a lot to know I'm not alone.
Anon
Just need some support...
I have had acne for 17 years. Not imagined acne... real acne. I pick at it... especially the cysts. I destroy my face even more. I have been on Accutane 4 times, among a million other things.
Now I am pregnant and my acne is even worse, which means my picking has also gone up a notch too. But beyond the picking, I want everyone's opinion on what is going on BEHIND the picking and what can be done to combat that. I feel that the picking is a manifestation of emotional problems. Or am I just wired wrong?
For instance, I *need* to look "perfect" or I am not happy or confident in public. Even my husband does not get to see me without makeup. I don't judge anyone's appearance harshly...why my own? I am repulsed by my bare face in the mirror. I feel like how can anyone love someone who looks like this? When my makeup is working, I think I look great and I feel on top of the world. When I have even one little spot bothering me that I can't cover perfectly, I feel miserable and I'm not "up". The truth is, I'm so good at squeezing, flattening, and covering my acne and sores, no one even knows I have a problem of this extent.
And don't even tell me how sick this is... I mentioned that I'm pregnant. Well, I am more anxious over how my skin will look while I'm in labor and afterwards than I am about BEING in labor. I am terrified about those famous "no makeup mom" pics holding the baby and about my family and friends coming in before I have a chance to grab my concealer. I know I will want to bolt to the bathroom and I will feel trapped. NO ONE has ever seen me without make up except me. I am terrified, and it's not about the pain of labor. I MUST be a sick individual. I am so excited about the baby, and I know all my attention should be on the little bundle of joy. But at that moment, I know I will be completely panicked while I should be brimming with joy. This is not normal.
So I ask, beyond the EXTERNAL picking, what is wrong with my INSIDES? Am I the only one with perfection obsession and if I'm not, what have others done to heal the true source of the problem? Or is this an anxiety disorder... not an emotional disorder that can only be treated with medication? H E L P !
Thank you all so much for your honesty on this board. It has helped me a lot to know I'm not alone.
Anon